Want Some Fresh Insight Into Your Love Personality

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Want some fresh insight into your love personality? Forget about whether you’re a Leo, Pisces or Aquarius; instead, consider whether you’re a first-born, middle child, or baby of the family. If you want to understand how you operate in every kind of relationship,understanding birth order is a lifesaver, tresses psychologist Kevin Leman, Ph.D., author of The Birth Order Book. Read on for more insight into your love life:

If you’re an oldest child...
It’s no coincidence that most U.S. Presidents were first-borns, because this is the sign of natural leaders. You’re a take-charge person, so not the type to drive friends and romantic partners crazy asking questions like,  where we should eat; where do you want to go?  Instead, you’ll make sure you have reservations  and land a prime table, too. And anyone lucky enough to pair up with you won’t spend weeknights wondering whether he or she has Saturday night plans, because oldest kids are planners says Dr. Leman. You’re also old-fashioned (in a good way). You always come through on anniversaries and Valentine Day.
Your love challenge

Being more spontaneous. First-borns aren’t the seize the day sort (you’re not one to text your sweetie to suggest meeting at this fun  you just walked past). Likewise, you hate surprises,  Dr. Leman warns. Pity the fool who springs meeting the parents on you or when you thought it was just the two of you going out tonight
Best match

The youngest child.  a case of opposites attracting,  says Dr. Leman. You help the last-born be more organized, and the last-born helps you lighten up.

If you’re a middle child...
Contrary to their reputation as insecure messes (example: Jan Brady), middle kids actually make stable and loyal partners. One thing you’re not is spoiled,  Dr. Leman says. You probably grew up feeling like you got less attention than your siblings, and that drives you to work for every perk  including a happy relationship. Also in the positives category: You’re a compromiser and negotiator,  Dr. Leman notes, so you’ll give your partner plenty of say in everything from how quickly your relationship progresses to where you go on vacation together. And your romance should be free of daily petty squabbles (middles hate conflict); instead, you try to put others at ease. 

Your love challenge

Opening up. Have you ever been told you’re hard to read? Middle children can be very secretive, says Dr. Leman. They got hammered by the first-born and swindled by the baby, so they keep their cards close to their chests.  You’re also not the best communicator when you’re upset. But if you learn to speak up instead of holding your anger in, you’ll have a more harmonious relationship.

Best match

Youngest child. Middles arent as threatened by last-borns as they are by exacting first-borns,  says Dr. Leman, so the odds are good for open communication.

If you’re a youngest child...
You’re all about fun. The most outgoing of all in the birth order spectrum, youngest children live to have a good time (it may be because your parents were more laid-back by the time you came along). On a typical first date you’ll have your date laughing so hard that water shoots out his or her nose. In fact, most famous comedians are youngest children,  says Dr. Leman. A partial list of famous examples: Jon Stewart, Jim Carrey, Ellen DeGeneres, Steve Martin and Eddie Murphy. And forget ho-hum plans like dinner and a movie; you love to do the unexpected, often on the spur of the moment. You’re the type to take someone to a party only to whisper, Let’s get out of here  two minutes later... and then convince your date to take a road trip to Atlantic City or Vegas for the weekend.

Your love challenge

Babies are the least financially dependable,  warns Dr. Leman (it comes from being, well, taken care of all your life). That means your date may be stuck picking up the tab when your credit card is maxed out. Also, some youngest children  not you, of course!  use that last-born charm and charisma to be a bit, ahem, manipulative, says Dr. Leman. That breed of baby will leave a date and sneak off to hit golf balls with pals or something similar, leaving the other person wondering what happened.

Best match

Either the oldest child (they serve as a good counterbalance in a parent-child sort of way) or middle child (they value friendships, so they totally understand why you love being the life of the party).

If you’re an only child...
You’re a rock-solid citizen” and a sweetie. Only children are super-reliable,  Dr. Leman says. They’re like oldest children taken to the extreme.  Growing up with only adults made you into a little grown-up early on  meaning you’re serious and dependable. You’re the rare person who will stay up half the night helping a friend or partner prep for a licensing exam or a big work presentation. You’re the type to move your partner’s car so he or she doesnt get a ticket. Punctual and true to your word, onlies like you never leave a loved one waiting for a call or email. And you’re articulate, too, so your date can expect great conversations that really make a person think.

Your love challenge

Admit it  you’re a bit of a perfectionist. Maybe you send back steaks that arent cooked just so or point out a teeny-tiny stain on your dates sweater. Also, you’re so cautious and pragmatic that you can be very slow to act (i.e., someone else has to make the first move).

Best match

Youngest child, because you balance each other out. The baby of the family adds spontaneity and romance, while you make sure you two arent dining by candlelight because the electric bill never got paid.

Lisa Lombardi has written for Marie Claire, Cosmopolitan, Shape and other publications. A classic middle child, she is happy to have picked a fun-loving last-born mate.